if she wants to move out let her, but dont' you leave, it will be on her to tell the kids why she is leaving, don't make things easy on her. Let her go out and fall on her face, don't come to her rescue, if she wants to do things her own way then she'll have to face the consecuences.
I like the advice. I do think she needs to see how uncomfortable and difficult things can be.
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I'm afraid the emotional outpouring comes from a very confused and emotional person who's thinking with her feelings, that's why she recanted the next day. It is hard not to hold on to hope when they break down and say things we want to hear, so you have to take everything she says with a grain of salt.
That was really the first time in two months that she broke down and said that she was ready to work on things. If felt like such a relief to me and I did get my hopes up that things would really turn around. The things she was saying were so genuine I do believe she feels this way deep down. She just keeps building up the walls to keep then down.
