Thanks Lester. I want to act "As If" as long as I can pay everything I need to pay. If I can do that, I won't let it bother me.....or show him that it does anyway.
I noticed you're in IL. What part? I lived in IL (western burbs of Chicago) for years. About 6 years ago we went through a really rough patch. I saw a DB coach in Woodstock & then was lucky enough to find a great counselor just down the street from me who had worked for Michele. She was wonderful. I'd love to try to remember her name and forward it to you. Gosh, I hope I can remember it.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day