As far as going cold turkey that could be a good 180 for you. What I have realized that using DB doesn't mean that the WS won't still have regrets now and again or go back and forth. The truth is they are taking powerful drugs (dopamine) and seem to act the way they do regardless. Remember, DBing is for you; it's more of a survival tool than a surefire way to fix the problem. Unfortunately, that's all in there hands. Plus, true DBing will make you look more attractive.
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates