I posted a question over on my thread in newcomers. The abbreviated version is: What should be my next step? 1 continue as is - it has gotten me here and things are improving. PA ended in June (I think)but she is still in contact with OM and it is eating away at me inside.
2 Ask if she needs to see OM to end it (I know of discussion to get together) if so then go and use travel credit from cancelled trip. (she doesn't know that I knew about 5 day trip with OM to beach that was cancelled due to our court date being set in the middle of it.)
3 Confront her and start asking the hard questions. Do you REALLY want to make this work like you told me or is that a ruse to string me along. If you want out fine- just make a decision.
