IMP - I know a few people who have made it through, and the funny thing is that they are now MUCH tougher on those who do MLC type stuff than anyone I know. A couple of guys are now deeply disapproving of infidelity,,divorce, shirking reponsibilities, . ..you name it. It is a bit like the reformed smoker/
And yes, lots don't make it. Bluntly I am not sure I could face cleaning up the kind of mess these people have made. And yes, it was their choice.