Sounds like what my wife just did. That is so weird (she loves golf too cuz of OM). I try to just keep an eye on the account so she doesn' go nutz but act "AS IF" otherwise. I think it's hard when they start screwing with finances but we're here for ya. Hang in there Sue.
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates