It seems like your sitch is pretty extreme. How are you coping? What do you do for you and your kids? My 2 yr old is always asking about his dad. I don't know what to tell him. He thinks his dad is at work all the time.
OMG, my S2 just had a melt down and he kept repeating how he wanted his Daddy. I kept saying , "Daddy's at work." Which really should be, "Daddy's not here." My book says to say, "I am not sure where Daddy is, but I will let you know." OR-"You can ask Daddy that yourself." Kind of contrived. Sometimes I get too emotional to say anything. Even at two, they know.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."