The way to handle someone like me is to be iron-firm in your boundaries or I will walk all over you with pointy high-heeled shoes. Not because I'm insecure, or have abandonment issues, but because you let me.

Wow. We talked about respect around her one time, and I was pretty hammered for my *lack* of respect for women.

I dont walk all over them, just because I can. When someone apologizies to me, I dont leap on them and beat them down with their remorse. I really question how I can have a lack of respect for women, when I show respect, pretty much all the time, even if I am sarcastic.
A woman wants to receive respect... but will dole out I will walk all over you with pointy high-heeled shoes... because you let me

That doesnt sound like HD's issue. That sounds like Mrs. HD's issue.

I so agree with the OP who said she (a lawyer) threw the rape word. Game over. Done. NO WAY I would mess with my freedom or my record.

BTW do your eyes really turn green? I ask because mine are hazel but turn green when I am horny and bright vivid green when I am raging mad. I remember when I lost my mind one day, and x decided to leave OM abode with me.

She looked at my eyes... not in... but at my eyes and said... Your eyes are so green right now, are you horny? and \:\/ at me.

and it hit me. she thought it was funny. (not when we were in the house though.)

Done. Game over.