IMP 'Now you want to move the bar' This isn't a mid term exam, or did I miss something? It is a thread for goodness sake. Rambling. sometimes incoherent. Should we post health warnings for newbies?
I see this more as speculative 'dinner party' conversation, where we toss ideas around. Nowhere does anyone say 'this is the way it is'. I am reading the posts with interest. . . . . some are deeply sad.
I totally agree that childhood issues 'shouldn't' affect adult behaviour. However, many people believe that they do. This isn't to excuse, but to understand.
Perhaps we all see these boards a little differently?? And our responsiblities??