Almost a WAW

[GoodGuy]

Sandi,
Too true that I need to be over my W before I can move on with someone else.

You said:
"You are right about your W loosing her marbles! You have seen your mistakes and now know what to do if you get another chance with her..........and if not, you know what not to do with another lady....given the chance. Either way, you will be a better man and husband for some lucky woman."

After a great deal of thought and the more I DB, the more I think that every human on the planet can make improvements to the way they lead their life, the way they interact, the way they treat their fellow man, to be more giving, nicer, more polite.

I was a great husband and father, maybe just not a good fit for my W? My W comes from a divorced family, her dad cheated on her mother for years until they D. Her mother to this day hates men, if a couple are fighting, it's always the guys fault in her eyes.
My W and her mother are very close, and I think that has rubbed off on her big time.

I love my W, but I'm starting to realize that no matter what I do, it may not be enough? Perfection is not attainable, I wouldn't want to be perfect anyway, I like being human, with good values and morals, maybe a little rough around the edges at times, but still kind and considerate. We all strive to be good people, at least the ones on this site. Maybe it's the WAS that need to take a good long look in the mirror and see they are not perfect either, maybe they could try a little harder. And if they don't want to, perhaps we are better off w/o them?
It hurts our families, but then, the WAS knew that before pulling the plug on their M.

How's that Sandi, does that sound sour enough for you?

My S said my W wants to have family night on Friday night, I'm not sure if that came from his mom or him?

Have a great day, tell me I'm just pissed off, and I need to concentrate at the task at hand, and put this puzzle back together again!