Im so sorry that you are dealing with all of this.

At this point I don't know what else you can do to make it better. Just continue to be there for your girls and detach from your W. I agree, there shouldn't be any talk of a D in the house.. but you already knew that, it is really good that she heard it from someone else.. this validates your feelings about it. She's not going to argue with 3 other people.

Throwing glasses huh.. she really sounds unstable at this point.
Remember she created this. In time your girls will know this. Its a shame she just can't come to her census and see what she is doing to the family.

I hope you are able distract yourself a bit and focus on your needs, its important if you are going to try and get her back. You have to feel good about yourself and work on that.

Your a great guy scott, hang in there and reach out here whenever you need to.

Blessings~

TAL


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.