As the song goes 'Try a little patience'. Damn hard, but seems to be working, from a 'we need to seperate and you need to leave the house' to 'I'm still not sure'.
And boy do I feel that I am sometimes in a great big rut. Read some of my previous rants! It is surprising what you do miss, even us males - cuddling together and just chatting is sorely missed, as is just holding hands.
m.green,
I can't talk for anyone else, but I enjoy the intimacy and feel that it is also getting me closer to my W. I want to save my marriage and if that helps me keep a level head, then I will be intimate. W recently told me she didn't want sex - I respected that, then she changed her mind (I REALLY respected that).
To you all,
Your advice and support is keeping me positive and upbeat. I think that is what the W is noticing the most. Thank you and I hope in some small ways I reciprocate the compliment.
