I get the same perspective. Take kids to school, picke them up, feed them and I miss one little thing and I am a crap dad. Never forget that your partner knows all the wrong buttons to press and boy can they press them.
In some ways its like a game and if you react, then they will do it again. I think I frustrate my W by not rising to some of the digs (boy have I learnt to count!!!) and just walking away.
SueS, Whatever you do, enjoy it for yourself - don't forget that any sort of exercise uses up energy and helps in the long run. Don't forget, you also have the right to say no (no excuses needed) - that will get him wondering.
Would anyone buy a device that shocked their partner everytime the OP phoned, cos I'm thinking of inventing one ;-)
