Mickey, I have to agree w/you. He was not a very "loving" person, but I accepted him for who he was and tried to be there for him all of the time. I gave and gave and never asked for anything in return because I knew his well was empty. My family and I attempted to make his life better for him, but in the end, it wasn't what he needed. He once said to me "who needs money"? I can go back and live the way I did in the early 70's. That's living in the barracks with only two nickels to rub together.
The first and only time I saw his OP, I about died. She looked like his mother, i.e., short, dark hair and even wore clothes like she would. Her mannerisms were the same too. I knew then that something was terribly wrong.
He's a very sad case, but I do wish him well and I am very glad he's with her and not me!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
