Thanks for the kind words. My girls keep me going, they are truly a blessing from above. I will have them the next few nights which should be a good time.
Unfortunately, I cannot say that my night got any better. When I got home for work there was no one home and I had a message on the answering machine that my W and girls were out to dinner with my IL's. That was fine. So because I knew my W was in bad mood I decided to not be at the house when they got home. I made dinner for myself and went to the store to buy D5 her soccer stuff. While I was out my friend called me with an update on his sitch and I was actually going to go to his house instead of going home. Well D5 wanted me to put her to bed, so she called me and asked where I was and if I could put her to bed. I went home and put both girls to bed and I could tell that my W was not happy that they wanted me. She made a comment about having a hard time with them since I had them gone for the weekend having a good time. Not sure how me having them gone this past weekend made yesterday hard on my W but it somehow did. After I put my girls to bed that is when the fireworks started flying.
Without going into every last detail here is what occurred. My W is mad that is D is taking longer then she thinks it should. She thinks that I am dragging this out and keeping her from being able to move out of the house. She yelled and threw a glass across the kitchen. D5 witnessed about 20 seconds of my W's meltdown. My IL's, one of our pastors and an elder from my church and his W ended up at my house last night. We all agreed that there is to be no more D talk in the house and if we need to talk about the divorce it will be outside of the house with a third party. We all also said what I have been saying all along let the L's handle the D.
So my night sucked and I was not able to get any sleep. Now I feel like I have been run over by a truck and am now sitting here wondering what in the world can I do to make this easier on all of us.
