I'm not disagreeing that this may be the final straw that broke the camel's back. However, you've been here before. Look, you're W is a bit cuckoo at the moment. I still think she's trying the shift the blame about money from her to you. The reality is hitting her, and she doesn't like it.
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY