Atlas,
You've said the same before. She's starting to realize that her choice isn't a bed of roses and is taking it out on you by lashing out. To me, it's seems like she's hung onto the short-term loss that your new job is creating to shift the blame from her to you. Don't take it.

The way your W has been up and down, I wouldn't be surprised if she was relatively pleasant later today or at some point in the next few days.

BD

My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.