Pamar, and I get a male perspective from here that has been very helpful as well. \:\) Good to see you.

SueS, I go out of my way at times to help H and never so much get a thank you. Very frustrating and yep, doormat central over here. I am struggling with H's lack of concern/interest in my everyday life. He never asks how I am, how my day is, etc. Used to do that all the time. I suppose H's detach as well, huh?

Grrr..to the phone. I got home last night, and H was asleep on the couch, in his t-shirt and boxer briefs. Phone was underneath him. Pathetic much?