I know this may be premature but need advice

[cat03]

if she wants to move out let her, but dont' you leave, it will be on her to tell the kids why she is leaving, don't make things easy on her. Let her go out and fall on her face, don't come to her rescue, if she wants to do things her own way then she'll have to face the consecuences.

I'm afraid the emotional outpouring comes from a very confused and emotional person who's thinking with her feelings, that's why she recanted the next day. It is hard not to hold on to hope when they break down and say things we want to hear, so you have to take everything she says with a grain of salt.