Being Me,
I just found this topic thread and have been greatly helped by this whole exchange. Your last post summed up the whole 'piecing feeling' brilliantly.

Aud,
I am newly piecing my marriage and ALL of my fears are what I have read you struggling with. If it gives you any joy...your struggle is illuminating my own. I guess that is the glory of the forum, right?

The Girl

Me: 34
H: 39
M: 11 yrs (7th year was HELL)
3 daughters
Survived Affair, 6 month separation
Rebuilt marriage
Currently stuck