Hairy, You're doing fine. She'd make it your fault if she stepped in dogsh!t getting out of her car at her office, you know that don't you? I'm especially proud of you for this:
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NG would have said, "oh, just had trouble sleeping and didn't want to bother you with my tossing and turning." I know this, because I've said this so many times. Instead, I said, "I tried to get back to sleep after you came to bed, and was thinking about what happened the night before, and you comparing it to your client's case, and basically felt uncomfortable next to you and . . . "
At this point, she got up, cursing, saying that I've made it "all about you" and "poor Hairdog" and "it's great how YOU did something wrong and now I'm the bad guy" and various other stuff.
Looks to me like you found a bit of chink in the armor there. Keep it up guy! She's grasping for things to jab you with, and you are doing a good job of handling it.