Get me on a smoother ride........Need Advice

[SueS]

H just called. He took care of his suspended license. I asked him about his football draft. He talked a lot about that. He told me that the original plans for he & his brother to go to CA for a football game & concert at the end of Oct. may fall through. He said that if that falls through, he'll go home to IL for a concert there. I asked if his brother was still at home since my SIL had told me last week that they were divorcing. He said....well, his wife hasn't given him the boot yet. My H joked that maybe he should have gotten a job back at his old company in IL and he and his brother could have a great bachelor pad. Now why does he have to say those things?? I asked him if he had anything on the agenda for this weekend. He said....not much.....then he asked if I was going home. A few months ago I had talked about going home this weekend to see my family. I told him that I hadn't planned on it. I said....it sounds like you were planning on me going home though. He just said....it's no big deal. I said...I thought we'd changed the plan for me to go the last weekend of Sept. when your buddy comes in town. That's a better time for me anyway. If OW is truly who I think she is, then she'll be gone that weekend too. She is leaving for a week with 2 of her kids to see her family. Just a blah conversation with him. Why do they feel the need to make us feel so crappy about ourselves & life?

SueS