She is waffling. She is confused. Try to get her to compromise. OK to move, but still do the weekend retreat. That way she has distance, but can stick her toes in the water and see what might be if she chooses to return to the marriage.
I think you are aware of Retrouvaille, right? http://www.retrouvaille.org. They conduct very helpful marital retreats all over the world. There are several couples from this board going this month and next. See EdieMarie and Limbo's threads. Hopefully they will be talking about their experiences by Monday.
Good luck. You are in the midst of a breakthough. Do take it slowly. She will probably continue to waffle until she does the retreat and feels love for you again. That does very often happen there.
