yeah I understand that feeling. For our sitch, H made it sound like he was SO hurt, he couldn't get past it, he'd be losing his best friend....and less than a week later, he was dating the EA that I'd been worried about, taking her to the restaurant where we met.....
Blech
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...