Well, perhaps HD knew better and no, I would not want to wake up with my spouse on top of me, but really, this just isn't a big deal to a normal person. A simple "I don't appreciate it" would do just fine, and then forget about it. Mrs. HD knows what it takes to make a marriage work and be whole...and she is not meeting him halfway. She has drawn a big, fat line in the sand regarding his need for some intimacy, making it out to be something that has to be well deserved and then probably not going to happen. I still think her not giving in is about complete and utter control over him.
