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[SallyM]

have you read db/dr? if you haven't, I'd highly recommend getting one or both and starting there.

I do think setting up bounderies is a good idea with any separation. you don't have to necessarily lay out a game plan for ending your marriage...in fact, you want to avoid that as much as possible. she may not know what happens next, what she wants next.

as for how you should act, as hard as it is, try not to beg/plead. do your 180s...be strong, make changes (sincere ones).

good luck!