Lissie - your and my sitch are so similar, so my words of advice / comfort are: 1) dont give up 2) make sure every interaction with him is positive (be bubbly, happy irrespective of what you feel inside) 3) make sure those friends know you are moving on (dont manipulate them but they can be a hidden asset) 4) talk to friends anyone but your H about your feelings 5) set some goals (see DR) 6) admit it might be over (it will help you recover quicker, it really will)
You have probably heard all this before, sorry I can't wave a magic wand but as everyone agrees, it will get better either way with time
Me - 39 W - 33 M - 5yrs Bomb - 8/5 2007 Moving out - 9/8 2007
