I think that sounds good. Your H is similar tomine in the sense he wants too come back but it afraid of all the little things that will "hurt" him. I too want to tell my H things like this.For some reason my H thinks you shouldnt have to "work" at the M. I guess this where the confusion of la la fantasy land comes in.
I too changed a lot especially on NOT reacting to my h's temper. I no longer let it get to me. I have told him but I told him he can not see the changes until he lives back w/ me. He was all ears and wanted to know for sure of the changes but I stopped midsentence & said these are all words & words are carried away w/ the wind, I want to show in my actions.
Your doing good & I will see u in peircing in no time!
