a) it is not indicative of a pervert to want to caress one's partner, sleeping or otherwise, on the boobs or related pieces of anatomy. It is, in fact, normal.
b) that said, if said partner has previously expressly he/she does not want this to happen, ever, such wishes must be respected. Always.
c) to continue to sleep next to a person who will go off on in such an extreme manner for such an "infraction" is rather masochistic. I wouldn't do it. You don't want to be touched and I want to sleep in a different room, where I won't be tempted to molest you.
I agree with all this. On some level, Hairdog knew he was provoking his W because they have been through this before. I have great emptahy for Hairdog and can sense his pain and frustration, which may have been more acute having come back from ( another) sexless vacation. Hairdog, you know inside that you are no rapist; in fact, that is part of the problem, that you are too nice ( not that you should go and imitate rapists!)
I want to call up your wife, not to have lunch with her, but to inform her that if she doesn't try to tackle her control/vulnerability issues, she is going to lose her marriage.
