Pamar, It sounds like you are really mastering a lot of your goals and living As If. This sounds very positive but do you ever feel you are in a rut? What would ittake for your W to commit 100% to the man she is supposed to be with forever? Has she noticed your 180's? If not, you seem very patient. I am happy that you get to share a bed and TV with your wife. That is lovely. Those are things I miss very much with my H. Simple, everyday things.
M. Green, Maybe some people express love through sex. Some people give or take power from sex. Others give or take pleasure and that's it. You may need to either Act As If and stay positive or set up boundaries. It depends where you are in your sitch.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."