I think if your W thinks you intend to date someone else, she will somehow begin to magically respect you and see that you may not wait for her forever. The potential to date another will be the ultimate GAL strategy IMHO. You have been a very loyal DBer and a good H. Keep up the good work, if you reconcile, and that is a great possibiity, then she will look back and thank you someday for carrying so much of the burden alone at this time.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."