Agreed mkultra... Donna, 48 hours on that good-bye letter, ok?? Really.

I know you need to reply to the birthday party thing before that but please wait on the rest.

Oldtimer posts often about detaching being important even in a happy, healthy M/R. It's not just for DB'ing. (yes, I still need to absorb this myself, but I kinda get it intellectually at least). So keep working at it... you're so strong Donna, I know you can do it.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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