Whoa, hang on. What about the 48 hour rule! Have you written the Plan B letter first..... Hang on. I am in a similar sitch, but, I dunno, I just want you to wait 48 more hours. It has been almost impossible for you to go to Plan B because H is always around. I know you can do this, go absolutely dark onto Plan B.
It does sound harsh but not irreparable. Not at all. H's words are cliche, right out of the Wayward's Spouses Textbook. My H has said all those same words to me too, almost verbatim. Maybe he is punishing you out of guilt.
I don't want you to suffer anymore. I certainly don't want you to feel emotionally abused either. Detaching is beneficial but there is always hope. Just detach completely without any drama. In his core, he is still there. He has dug himself into a hole so deep he cannot get out. Sorry. I know you already have everything you need to hear. He's a prick. Maybe you are just losing a bad man. I just wish he would feel remorse.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
