The sooner you do 180s the better! Remember to gat a life and stay positive. The wayward or walk away spouse needs a safe pathway home to his spouse. Don't remind him of love or responsibilty or commitment. You may not be able to guilt him back. Read everything related to mid life crisis if you think he has that disease. Stay postive, supportive, and understanding. See everything from his point of view and find something to agree with. Do not rally any troops yours or his. Most of all, NO SNOOPING! That will break down his path home and break trust big time.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."