I think I'm going to come out of retirement for this one. *sleepy look beause of late hour* (I have been dealing with a young relative with mental health issues who's thankfully now stablized; and some exam stuff that's drastically cut into my computer playtime).
a) it is not indicative of a pervert to want to caress one's partner, sleeping or otherwise, on the boobs or related pieces of anatomy. It is, in fact, normal.
b) that said, if said partner has previously expressly he/she does not want this to happen, ever, such wishes must be respected. Always.
c) to continue to sleep next to a person who will go off on in such an extreme manner for such an "infraction" is rather masochistic. I wouldn't do it. You don't want to be touched and I want to sleep in a different room, where I won't be tempted to molest you.
I have to admit that in some deep cavern of my female mind I somehow admire her nerve. The sheer outrageousness of her reaction and subsequent logici-fying is awe-inspiring. It strikes a cat-chord in me and turns my eyes green. Give me her phone number so we can have tea. Oh, and be afraid. Be very afraid. *grin*
