Tough one. Being vindictive is bad. Being protective is good. Really, it is about how you approach it. Since when do we let children decide for themselves anyways? Your H is rationalizing like a child and acting like you do not exist. No, it is not OK for your D to associate with CW. She is your H's mistress. My D6's TH said I should only accept my H's mistress if that is what I want my D6 to accept as an adult. She asked if I accepted that behavior since some women do. I said, "No, but I am waiting for my H to return." TH said that it is OK to wait for him to return but I did not need to expose myself or my D6 to his affairs or his insanity. OK. I have to put my foot down and set up boundaries. Give them an inch, and they take the kids to a party with OW's kids. No.
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Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
