Maybe patting the bunny and feeding the cow was over done. When I tried to do something different, I got complaints. Now I hear, ignore the complaints (I think any way) now I have to spank the monkey.
I think our R is so far from monkey spanking, I wonder where to begin.
Okay, I'm kind of going to the end of the range of what I mean when I say "masochistic". How about if I suggest that it should be "fun"? I will use my swimming analogy. Let's say the man is being the leader in bed so he is like the swim coach. It's not so much fun if the swim coach makes you wear a life preserver, inflatable arm rings and hold on to a kickboard and then only takes you out into 2 feet of water. If you have a bad attitude about swimming that isn't going to improve matters. Just ask yourself "What would be a fun thing to do with a naked woman" and then just do it.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
