I am sorry to hear of your sitch. I am newly separated too however we have a little one so I do still get to see mine. I do know from what my MC has said it can take 4-6 weeks for the person to left to actually begin to miss the person they left. She said for about the first 4 weeks there is just relief for them that they have finally gotten themselves out of the sitch that they are in. So hang in there and hopefully you will be hearing from him soon. For me the waiting is the worst part and not knowing when he will miss me is even worse. But she says it does happen and that is when they really start to think about the sitch and figure out what they are doing.