You did alright. I know it's hard. You think "well maybe this time will be different". There is no easy answer. You don't want your husband to have both the other woman and you so you don't give in. but then you feel like you are closing the door. If you don't. There comes a time when you have to set boundaries. I am not good at this but I am learning. I am to the point myself that I need let my W know it is not ok the way we are living. She needs to make a decision. Not a cared in stone decision but at least let me know if there is a chance for romance. Hey that was cool.
Sorry I had a couple of shots of JD. This is another problem that is arising with me. I am beginning to drink a little too much.
Anyway sorry for going off o=in a different direction but don't be so be hard on yourself. There are no rules in this game. We kind of make them up as we go along.
The GOOD husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know