I am so sorry to hear you are in the sitch you are in.
I just wanted to let you know that I have been divorced for a year and it took the finalization of signing on the dotted line to set me free of XH's MLC.
I went on to go back to school and get a job. I finally GAL because I wanted to, not to get my H back and it was wonderful.
So glad to see you back and from what I have read from your post you are one smart cookie. You are a great writer and have a good head on your shoulders...
We are all here from you and if you need a ((cyber hug,)) just ask..