I am inclined to agree with Fran ... mostly because I believe that sleeping in the same bed is tantamount to hotel management leaving a chocolate bar on the pillow (not hidden away in the back of the cupboard) and then being offended that you ate it ("no, those are for display purposes only!" -- well, nuts to that, I say.)

I believe you have already taken a step toward this (killed two birds with one stone, whatever) by instituting your three month moratorium, have you not?

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