So am I a sex addict with real Major Issues? A rapist? Or what?
Well, here's what I think, for the record. It was wrong for me to squeeze her boob -- the second time, after I realized that it was, indeed her boob and that she was, indeed, asleep. At that point, it was all about me, she was just a body attached to a boob, and it felt kinda cool that I was squeezing a boob for the first time in months. And I should have stopped.
No Hairdog you are not a sex addict, a rapist or anything like that. You are human and you are weak (like the rest of us humans). You are the same as a person on a diet who finds a bar of chocolate at the back of the cupboard and eats it. No worse than that.
I think you should kick her out of the marital bed. If her body is off limits to you can she please keep it elsewhere. The marital bed is the place where physical intimacy between H and W is supposed to take place. If she can't take the heat...
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
