I found myself feeling more and more righteously indignant as the day wore on, reading all of the posts. All I really wanted was a reality check. Am I a sex maniac?
If she uses this to try to derail my trip, I can handle it.
If she charges me with marital rape for touching her boob, I can handle it.
If I'm a sex maniac or rapist or whatever for playing with her boob for 20 seconds while she sleeps in spite of her asking me not to, well, I can still handle it, but I'll get some professional help.
The consensus is, no, not a rapist.
Now, I want to figure out what Hairdog would do, as a recovering NG, on his way to integrated male. I know the answer is "not what you usually did" and "not what feels comfortable" but I need to reflect on what it might be.
Thanks, all. I do appreciate the various "heads up!" and y'all watching my back.
