Boooks I found helpful [in addition to Valentine's excelent suggestions: neither deals specifically with MLC, but throw insight onto how early experiences stunt people
'The Search for the Real Self' by James Masterson - recommended by my therapist.
The Successful Self' by Dorothy Rowe.
Both are written by well respected pschychologists, and practitioners and are easy to read.
I now realise that my h was a walking time-bomb, but lovely and loveable.
