And before I came to this forum, I thought it was so unique of my W to say: ILYBNILWY. She was also very clear in letting me know that 'all her life she has taken care of others and now is the time to take care of herself'.

What you need to do is exactly the same - take care of yourself, detach, stay away from the emotional mess and make yourself a better person. The difference between her selfish thoughts and yours is that she is confused and you are not!

Last edited by mile_high_PMA; 09/04/07 09:58 PM.
Me 41, ring on
W 36, ring off
married 13 yrs
Separated
D9, D5
bomb May, 07
My sitch