NewHorizons: It is dangerous for your personal liberty to remain with someone who equates touch from their spouse with rape. If I was you, what would you recommend?
HD: I'm going to have to think about this. Dang.
My money is betting that this is exactly what she wants you to do - think it over. I'd call her bluff, do the Cesar Milan thing and "condition" her with a choker collar to make her sit still and not growl each time you touch her breast!
I'm only half joking about that because some kind of "conditioning" is what its going to take for her to get over this panic reaction. Are you sure she wasn't the one who was raped at some time?
