Well we did the swap this morning and he would not look at me or talk to me at all. But this afternoon was totally different. He stayed at the house for an hour after I got home but I made myself scarce. I did the dishes and other things. He kept coming into the room I was in but did not say anything and then would leave again. He was very nice tonight too. Also he mowed the lawn today while he was here with our S. What is up with that? He did not mow it for almost 2 months when he lived here and now he is mowing it.
He also made a complete mess of the house. He has not eaten any food here or anything in over two weeks. He will not even take a drink but today he made a huge meal for himself. I really do not understand him at all. He sends such mixed messages.
I met with my MC today and she told me that I need to make myself and our S not available to him unless it is a scheduled visit. We need to be scarce so that he can see what his life is like without us. Of course he did not miss me the last two weeks he saw me every day. We may not have really talked but he still saw me and was around us. So I am GAL bound now. Even if I just go to my parents I will not be home when he may come around.
God I hope this works and it is over soon. This is really draining.
