I know, I know, don't let HER define my thinking. But how about the betrayal part? The fact that she has asked me not to touch her boobs (etc.) when she is asleep, and I did it in spite of that?
So what, that's how you sleep. Her request was unreasonable. Tell her to quite trying to control you. You're going to touch any good looking female lying next to you at night. You're male, don't excuse it.
