Hi LIN! How are you? Did you go to Greece? Or are the plans still there?
I wanted to ask you advice about my sitch. The last time I posted he wanted to live in our downstairs appartment. After he returned from Other country he was distant and cold and I felt OW had pulled him back. He stared saying he did not know if he was able to live there financially etc. Backing out. The day before yesterday he picked up his phone when he was here and talked in a room next to where we were. The doors were all open and I feel he and OW broke up!! I've been praying hedge of thorns a few times each day!
Anyway he has been coming by quite a lot and seems depressed, even said so. I let him come by when he wants to but I still do not start talks. Should I? Today he mentioned he will always be closeby to Ds. I remember you had the same when your DH broke up with OW he did not come back but moved right? Just not very sure how to proceed... Siince he has tried a different type of work and just returned he is also down about going back to work in his old field and searching for what he wants to do. It just feels a bit awkward for me to be fun and loving but not talking about this stuff. I feel like I need to try and build an emotionalrelationship with him. Or should I back off??
