root,

That's fine. I have clarified what I meant back over on the girl's thread. See what you think. I think that maybe there is always an element of possibly being/feeling second best when the S recommitts. It's hard and piecing is as bad nearly as when they have the A - it just brings along it's own set of problems and insecurities!!!!LOL

I think your comments on problems to do with introducing another person/S in the future into the equation are very valid. It takes an exceptional person to love a child as much as the parents do.

No wierd weather here - which is unusual for the UK - just getting cool Summer's coming to an end I guess.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength